Focus on the Family has been persistently set against the paragon of tolerance and acceptance when approaching perspectives existing outside their own. Evidence of this routine is potently perceptible in how the organization has handled people with an orientation outside the heteronormative standard. It is typical for Focus on the Family to lionize its cause while demonizing its detractors. And not always do people have to actively stand in opposition to Focus on the Family's goals to find themselves an obstacle to the organization's pursuits. When observing this kind of interaction by Focus on the Family, it is often difficult to discern what motivates their particular approach and the effects this approach has on those who unwittingly become the targets of it. The process of gaining a better understanding of the organization's motives and the effects of their actions lends itself to a narrative interpretation.
When observed on a narrative scale, it is much easier to segment and analyze the different aspects of Focus on the Family's agenda. This quality has a great deal to due with narrative's intrinsic and constant state of self-explanation.
In a chapter (2009) by Foss:
Narratives can be examined, as well, for what they reveal about an individual's or a culture's identity. Because stories "have to do with how protagonists interpret things, what things mean to them," they provide clues to the subjectivity of individuals and the values and meanings that characterize a culture. the stories told by a rhetor or group of rhetors, then, provide clues to their worldviews and thus to their motivations for action. (p. 401)
By observing Focus on the Family at this level it allows for a more appropriate approach to often abstract, metaphorical, and arbitrary ideas. While this method might serve to unveil the drive behind Focus on the Family, there seems to be the danger of either buying into or reversing the black and white characterizations that are a natural occurrence in narrative pursuits. The characters in a story are a generally astute place to start any examination of a narrative.
Observing the roles of the various characters present in Focus on the Family's narrative is vital. These characters or groups are more often than not ones that have adopted a polar opposite worldview than that of Focus on the Family. The breakdown on who these characters as I've chosen to cover are, are as follows: those with a orientation outside of heteronormative standards, those seeking rights in regards to same-sex marriage, supporters of abortion, and those who are not Christian. These characters stand in direct opposition to the ideological struggle Focus on the Family is working to protect and thus serve as agents of change. Their progressive stance is an agent of evil in Focus on the Family's worldview or vantage point. From the perspective of Focus on the family these characters are the antagonists to to their protagonist cause, and the organization has created many tailor made personal accounts that work to illustrate this precept.
Focus on the family features many supposed first hand accounts of individuals who have had to deal with those falling outside of the standard sexual orientation. Many of these accounts are negative or deal with situations that have been place under a negative light. One such account of an event that has been placed in this sort of light can be found on the group's webpage.
Dalfonzo (2010) from Focus on the Family's webpage:
When the new neighbors' girl showed up at Jonathan and Amanda Witt's door asking if their 11- year-old daughter could play, Amanda thought nothing of it. Amanda called her daughter and one of her sons and sent them out to get acquainted. The kids played all morning, had lunch together at the Witts' house, then went back outside.
But Amanda's kids soon came running in with an announcement. "Her mother is a lesbian," her 7-year-old son declared.
Amanda grieved not only for the partial loss of her young children's innocence, but also for the girl who brought this unwelcome knowledge into their lives. The girl had cried when she told Amanda's children about her mother, fearing that they would no longer be allowed to play with her. […]
[…] The Witts' story illustrates the difficulty of preserving children's innocence in a culture that seems eager to destroy it. (p. 3).
In looking at this quote it is simple to tell which roles the characters have been placed to play. The mother, Amanda, represents the protagonist fighting against the corruption of her children by a destructive and antagonistic outside culture which is represented by the mother of the 11-year-old girl. If given closer consideration, it may be deduced that the fears of the 11-year-old daughter are erroneously characterized as being the fault of her mother. The alternative reading, that the eleven-year-old girl and her mother have been the repeated victims of prejudice is overlooked entirely. Not only that but the potentiality that they will become the future victims of Amanda's prejudice seems to be a suggested outcome. It seems possible that in this situation the victimized has been distorted in interpretation through Focus on the Family's lens of perception into the role of the victimizer.
Focus on the Family's ability to turn the victimized into the victimizer is born out of the groups limited ability to see outside the perspective of their world view and ideology. Those who subscribe to doctrines that mirror those of Focus on the Family truly believe the evil in this tale lie in the hands of the 11-year-old girl's mother. This kind of constricted interpretation is not one of purposeful intention; it is the product of years of indoctrination. That is not to say it is less dangerous because it is an unintentional reaction to a very learned way of perceiving things. The inability of Focus on the Family to see from a perspective outside their own admits them to see events in a limited scope, letting them then reproduce a narrative that is imbued with a kind of naivety marked by extreme ignorance. One can muse upon the various effects this kind of one-sided storytelling can produce, and from where I stand I can accurately respond to the effects it has as an individual who has been directly affected by this kind of story telling.
From personal experience I have seen the kind of alienation and misunderstanding stories like this create. My first reactions when reading Amanda's story and the thoughts she carried away from the experience are of aversion and distaste. These feelings often prove arduous to set aside and complicate any attempts to create an objective analysis of the situation. When those carrying feeling that are the antithesis of Focus on the Family's read narratives of this variety, feelings of resentment emerge. The end result leaves little room for dialogue between this organization and the many existing outside their world view. The tendencies of Focus on the Family and groups with causes similar to theirs are highly polarizing and only work to widen the gap between them and their many detractors.
Focus on the Family does not just spend their time concerning themselves with the affairs of those falling outside the sphere of the heteronormative majority. Another group the organization directs a lot of its attention towards are those of different religions.
Moreland (2010) from Focus on the Family's webpage:
Hey, I gotta question!" yelled a student from the back of the room. I was sharing the claims of Christ at a University of Massachusetts fraternity house when he interrupted me. "Yes, what is it?" I queried. "I think Jesus is great for you, but I know Buddhists and Muslims, and they're just as sincere as you are. And they think their views are true just like you do. There's no way a person can know his religion is the 'right' one, so the best thing to do is to just believe everyone's religion is true for them and not judge anyone."
Ever heard something like this? It's hard to believe you haven't. What should we make of these ideas? How should we respond? I think there is a good response to this viewpoint [. . .]
[. . .] Are there objective principles to guide one in choosing a religion? Indeed there are. I believe the following four principles should be used to guide one in choosing which religion he or she will follow and, if properly applied, I believe they will point to Christianity as the most rational choice.
It is difficult not to view this passage as a sanctimonious utterance. In this instance the character of the student is less of an antagonist and more of a person in need of rescue. In the narrative above individuals of Focus on the Family are clearly positioned to take up an archetypal role of savior of the misguided. The student is set as an example of a person who's opinions are not valid and who needs to be argued against. His views are considered to not be the rational equivalent of those of Focus on the Family. In addition Focus on the Family makes a claim that can not be backed up on a factual basis; there is no objective principle that could prove one religion to be a more sufficient choice over another. As well as choices involving religion Focus on the Family believes it has the best choices when regarding personal affairs.
Focus on the Family is a vocal opponent of abortion. Its aversion towards the practice stems from its religious background and belief that life begins at conception.
Anonymous (2010) from Focus on the Family's webpage:
[…] I had my life together. However, I was in a sexual relationship that had crushed my faith. The decline was slow, but culminated in a date rape that left me feeling chained to a man I hated . […] And then it happened. I was pregnant.
The evening that I confirmed my pregnancy, my boyfriend was interviewing at a church for a youth pastor position. He knew that I was at home taking a pregnancy test. When he stopped by my house, all he could do was tell me about the interview. I knew then, looking at this man I despised, that I would not keep the baby. I felt that there was absolutely no question of what to do — which even now surprises me. We fought, cried, talked, etc. about what to do. But I knew. knew, too. This could not happen. […]
[…] The doctor was sitting with his feet on a desk, reading the paper and laughing. We went into a little room with Frankenstein-like equipment. I had never even been to a gynecologist before. After a prick, and noise, and a lot of fear, it was over. Fairly quick, fairly painless. In the recovery room, I saw a mother holding her daughter's hand, and I felt a pitiful connection with the four other women on cots. Leaving the building, I felt overwhelming relief. My nausea was gone almost immediately after the baby was taken. The first thing I wanted to do was eat.
The following weeks and months brought a myriad of emotions. My relief quickly turned to grief. I felt a debilitating isolation because no one knew what had happened but he and I. Life went on. I continued to work. Didn't miss a day. But I began to slip. […]
My relationship ended. Thankfully, I was more hopeful for the future. But the damage was done. I became promiscuous, drank and experimented with lesbianism. […]
Now, almost 10 years later, I still struggle with the consequences of my actions. I have lost a child. Weeping, I see my niece who is two months younger than my child. Sadly, I chose to turn away from God, and the choices I made will always be part of my life. […]
Thankfully, His faithfulness isn't dependent on mine. God's spirit has returned to my life now. Finally, I have found some measure of healing. Looking back, I believe that all of my previously understood arguments against abortion fell short because I didn't understand what God says: that every life is sacred — even a broken one.
This narration explicitly lays down a principle of Focus on the Family's doctrine, that principle being that abortion is a sin. As glimpsed from this story it can be deduced that the organization believes no extenuating circumstances exist that could negate this fact. The protagonist of the above story is faced with several realities. She is the victim of rape and burdened by a sense of guilt that binds her to the perpetrator. To exasperate this situation she is pregnant with the child of the man who raped her. In light of these facts, her final conclusion is that life is sacred. While espousing this belief she proceeds to refer to the life of which she feels burdened by as broken. When considering this, it is worrisome to see the protagonist's final conclusion. How is she supposed to raise a child if her perceptions are that she would be dealing with a damaged life?
The narratives of Focus on he Family give us a different way to perceive and interpret the organization's world view. It gives us insight we would not otherwise be able to gleam from news articles, interviews and other mediums. These stories allow us to walk away with a clearer look into Focus on the family's intentions, as well as the potential effects their actions elicit from the outside world. Knowing these facets admit us to gain a greater understanding into the mindsets and actions of this group, thereby equipping those who would wish to argue a point against them with greater ammunition to do so.
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_is_a_christian_worldview_important/choosin_my_religion.aspx>.
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